南风

曾经做过一篇完形填空，很喜欢它的内容，说到心坎里

     “People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person. When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. 
     They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. 
     Then, without any wrong doing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. 
     Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. 
     The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on. 
     Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. 
     They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. 
     They may teach you something you have never done. 
     They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. 
     Believe it, it is real, but only for a season. 
     LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind, but friendship is clairvoyant. 
     Thank you for being a part of my life, whether you were a reason, a season or a lifetime.

-- Anonymous”

其实不是你走开或我走开，是我们都在走。方向对，我们一起走一段路，走到分岔路口，你向左而我想向右，我们就应该分开。没有谁会停下。

在一次一次的分离过程中，我始终是被动接受的一个，虽然知道了这个道理，他们大多是the friend for a season，还是难以释怀。

经过一段谷底时期，我终于明白我应该是为自己想要的东西奋斗的，不是为了别人。

我想我终于强大到足以自己支撑自己燃烧了，不会熄灭。